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Tuesday, June 8, 2010

OBE

We celebrated our fourth anniversary this past week =), and had a fun trip planned to go celebrate in Philadelphia for the day (Saturday).

The Original Plan

  • 0530 Leave Home
  • 0815 Arrive Philadelphia
  • 0830 Breakfast at Reading Terminal Market
  • 1000 Drive to Independence Visitors Center; pick up Independence Hall Tickets
  • 1015 Park at 125 South 2nd Street Garage
  • 1030 Independence Seaport Museum
  • 1330 Lunch at Panini's
  • 1430 Liberty Bell
  • 1530 Independence Hall Tour
  • 1700 Dinner (TBD)
  • 1830 Depart Philadelphia
  • 2115 Arrive Home

But, we didn't get home from the temple as early as we thought, and we were finalizing last-minute plans and packing, and realized that it was late. Jill was tired, and had checked the weather report and saw thunderstorm warnings for Philadelphia and most of our drive. It may not have been a big issue, except the Seaport Museum closes some of the boat tours and stuff "in adverse weather", and heavy rain would have significantly slowed our journey. So, we decided to do some things around here that we haven't done yet.

The Revised Plan
  • 0800 Sleep In
  • 0830 Breakfast
  • 0900 Leave for Target; pick up Jill's prescription
  • 1000 Head to Wal-Mart*; pick up things Jill needed for a bridal shower she's giving a co-worker
  • 1130 Leave Wal-Mart and head to a nickel arcade* for some gaming fun
  • 1330 Eat our sack lunch
  • 1400 Head to Udvar Hazy*; enjoy the museum
  • 1730 Head to dinner (Famous Daves)
  • 1900 Head home
* There was some discussion about what order these would actually go in, since they were all in the same general area that we were headed toward. I can't remember the "final" revised plan.

But that doesn't matter, because the revised plan ended up getting changed in the morning...and during the day.

Our Real** Day
  • Slept in
  • Did dishes and packed a lunch while Jill slept some more
  • Looked up used book stores
  • Left the house mid- to late-morning
  • Went to Target & got Jill's prescription
  • Went to Hole in the Wall Books & browsed the stacks for a while. Jill found a copy of Middlemarch (she's reading it for book club) and I got Spy Catcher (autobiography of a senior intelligence officer). Skimmed an interesting book about the search for Dracula, a "decoding" Stonehenge academic novel, and other random things.
  • Ate lunch in the car as we drove out toward Sterling
  • Shopped at Wal-Mart. Got party stuff and toilet paper, looked at the office supplies, and got Jill some Amish potato salad from the deli.
  • Went to the arcade (couldn't find a nickel arcade, but there was this laser-tag / arcade place out by Dulles (IAD) that we thought we'd try. Tons of young kids having a laser-tag party; very few arcade games. Stopped at Subway so Jill could use the restroom and get a cookie.
  • Drove to Udvar Hazy. The traffic leading up to the parking lot was backed up at least 30 cars or more in both lanes. The cars up front were in park (no brake lights), and some lucky people were bailing out early (who were close enough to the gap in the grass median to turn around and head back to the highway). We sat for some time, watched a total of zero cars enter the parking lot, saw what appeared to be museum attendants coming out of the gates and talking with the people in the cars up front, and more cars turning around. We decided we were done waiting (and finally enough cars had bailed that we were at the gap) and we turned around and headed back to home.Savings: $15/parking
  • It was too early for dinner, so we decided to go do some other things. Like go to the party store, because Jill still needed some things. And another arcade was by the party store in Arlington/Falls Church, so we thought we'd give that one a try
  • Shopped at the party store
  • Drove by the arcade--completely full parking lot and lots more children running through the lot and into the building. Decided we didn't even want to look inside. Savings: $10-20
  • Jill remembered there was a Babiess'R'Us nearby, so we stopped to see if they had any fetal heart monitors. Only one model, and more than what we were expecting. Left and drove across the street.
  • Went to Staples to see if they had the binder I was looking for (in the office supplies) earlier. They didn't have the one I was thinking of, but they did have a cool one on sale.
  • Went over to Bed Bath N Beyond. Jill needed a mini-muffin pan for something. Also looked again to see if they had the One Trip Grip that Jill has been wishing she had every time we go shopping. They didn't have any in the store, but they ordered one for us and sent it to us for free. Upgraded our "dishwasher" with a new "food catcher" for the kitchen sink and new dish brush.
  • It was only about 1645, but we decided we were ready for dinner. Went to Ruby Tuesdays.
  • Drove home. Jill got sick. We watched a show. Gave Jill her shot, wrote in our journal, read scriptures, and put her to bed. Got ready for my early-morning EQ meeting.
**At least as I recall it now.

Pretty much nothing happened as planned, except Target and Wal-Mart. I decided the theme from this post would be OBE--Overcome By Events (a term I picked up at work). Wikipedia defines OBE as "a term of military origin used when a situation changes so rapidly that previously proposed courses of action are no longer relevant."

In our case, things like the late night, tiredness, and long lines of traffic rendered out prior plans irrelevant. But it was still a great day. We love browsing through old books, riding in the car together, and just hanging out.

[somewhat related]
Found out one of the classes I registered for in the Fall has been cancelled because the professor is no longer available. I started looking at other classes to see if any interested me so that I could still have two courses in the Fall. When we talked about it, however, we decided that it might be a good thing that the class was cancelled. I can do my last class for the certificate next Spring (when my basic tuition assistance returns in the new calendar year) and then apply for the masters program and the scholarship at work to help pay for it, then start back again in the Fall. It just might work...

Interesting Thought of the Day

An excerpt from the Gospel Doctrine lesson manual:

Elder John A. Widtsoe said: “I believe that the busy person … who has his worries and troubles, can solve his problems better and more quickly in the house of the Lord than anywhere else. If he will [do] the temple work for himself and for his dead, he will confer a mighty blessing upon those who have gone before, and … a blessing will come to him, for at the most unexpected moments, in or out of the temple will come to him, as a revelation, the solution of the problems that vex his life. That is the gift that comes to those who enter the temple properly” (quoted by David B. Haight, in Conference Report, Oct. 1990, 76; or Ensign, Nov. 1990, 61).

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Just some of the things

I've been reviewing for my final...
Jeremy L. Erb
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Friday, May 7, 2010

Sometimes life

throws a curveball

watch an illusion here
...and I don't even play baseball

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

The Rule of Three

Interesting advice from Harvard Business Review:

APRIL 6, 2010
Know When to Confront Someone
When someone shows up late to a meeting or makes a comment that makes you uncomfortable, it can be difficult to decide if it's a big enough deal to address or if you should let it go. In situations like these, try using the "rule of three." The first time someone does something that makes you uncomfortable, take notice of your discomfort. The second time, acknowledge that the first time was not an isolated incident and that there may be a pattern emerging. The third time it's time to speak up. Tell the person that you've noticed something three times and you want to discuss it with him. This simple rule can both help you determine what's worth raising and hold you back from jumping on every single issue.
[Text from Harvard Business Review: Management Tip of the Day (email)]

There are some interesting comments on the main article (puppy pee theory, additional analysis, caveats, etc.). Regardless of the form it takes, I think I like the idea of having personal rules with how to deal with different situations. What do you think?

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